Wow, this year is already flying by! Can you believe February is almost OVER?! Holy cow!
Lately, I’ve been listening to A LOT of podcasts — I usually listen to one episode everyday during my evening walk with Ella. One of the last episodes I was listening to spoke of New Years Resolutions, and how instead of making giant lists of action items, to fit your resolutions around a “one word theme” for the entire year. This was so interesting — I’d never really thought of it that way, but after thinking about it, my resolutions do usually fall into a similar pattern.
Some are typical: get fit and healthy, save money, get out of debt. But, this year — there’s something deeper I’m focusing on: me. I mean, the real me — not just my outer body or some physical attribute that people can see right away.
It’s almost like, I feel the past few years I’ve consumed myself with distractions, work, and somewhere along the line, I’ve lost myself. I work hard to be a great mother, wife, and friend — but at the end of the day, I need to work even harder to be a great .. me. By being a better “me,” I will be even greater in the other roles I fill.
It seems so simple when you type it out or read it — but for some reason, this has been a very difficult thing for me to realize: I’m worth more than what I’ve been giving myself credit for. Sure, I’m my own worst critic and have really high standards, but you know, I need to put more faith and trust into my own ability to be great.. to be awesome.
So, I’ve chosen my word for the year: Growth.
Maslow said, “You will either step forward into growth, or step backward into safety.” It’s time for me to focus on becoming my best self. It’s time to step outside of my comfort zone and try new things. Make new connections. Now is the time to take challenges, for the bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity for growth.
I once read somewhere that, in this world, “you are either growing or you are dying, so get in motion and GROW” A ship is safe in its harbor, but that’s not what a ship was made for. The same applies to us — and I’ll be damned if I let another year pass by wishing I would’ve pushed myself, grown a little more, and created new memories by leaving my “harbor.”
Just some random thoughts during nap time. 🙂 Hope everyone is having a great week so far!